Perusing my large quotes file brings back memories and conviction and gladness at the mercy of God.
Once upon a time there were just a few options for us when we got mad at someone else and wanted to malign them. We could walk across the town square and gossip with our neighbor about our neighbor. Then the telephone created more temptations. Now the internet is filled with half the story ill will.
I know the temptations. Many times I have yielded to the desire to spread my perspective on someone else to the hearts of others. Many times I have entertained such venom gladly. I find I am deeply curious about the latest smear, the publication of half truths. I don;t think it is a godly curiosity.
I have advocated the wise and godly use of blogs from the beginning. Issues may be discussed, but not people. God cherishes his good name and wants us to cherish each other's good name.
Few things are more a grief to God than gossip. The accused had no opportunity to reply. Nor is it even possible. Nor wise to do so.
I have found benefit for myself in this quote by a man who lived in a sea of gossips. I find it helps me guard my words and helps me guard my ears. Simeon was a pastor in Cambridge in the last 19th and early 19th centuries.
The longer I live the more I feel the importance of adhering to the rules which I have laid down for myself in such matters. First, to hear as little as possible what is to the prejudice of others. Second, to believe nothing of the kind until I am absolutely forced to. Third, never drink into the spirit of one who circulates an ill report. Fourth, always to believe, that if the other side were heard, a very different account would be given of the matter.
I consider love as wealth; and as I would resist a man who should come to rob my house, so would I a man who would weaken my regard for any human being.
-Charles Simeon, on Gossip
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